Daily Menopause Wisdom: Age Inappropriate!

I’m a little bit tired of all the advice, the do’s and don’ts, the little comments, the magazine articles, all telling me, a woman at menopause, what is appropriate for a “woman my age.” Are you tired too?

What if you had permission to do/dress/be in whatever way most fed your spirit, whatever way lit up your heart the most?

Would you…

wear flowers in your hair * get a tattoo * rock a bikini * or wear an awesome flowery caftan to the beach

Would you…

tell them you’re taking a break from making dinner * stay up late drinking bourbon and listening to (or playing) the blues * paint * go dancing

Would you…

go on a silent retreat * say NO * have hot sex every night * or become celibate, whatever YOU want.

Would you…

serve yourself first * wear jeans and stillettos
– or combat boots * grow your hair long * or cut it all off

Would you…

wear mini-skirts * let them do their own laundry * say YES * go on a deluxe holiday by yourself * put rainbow colours in your hair

How would YOU do it differently if you had permission to be age inappropriate? Well, today, YOU HAVE PERMISSION. Tell me in the comments – what would you love to do that’s age inappropriate???

Love,
Bronwyn

The awesome photo on this post is via the Chicago Tribune by Alex Garcia – it’s a photo feature on the amazing Helen Lambin who has gained notoriety for beginning her tattoo journey at age seventy. Read the whole thing here.

About Bronwyn

I'm a visual artist, writer, mother, community builder, priestess, dancer, visionary, and master of reinvention. The unifying thread in a life of constant creative change has been my work with women. Vivid Menopause, created with Annagrace Kaye, is a labor of love and the culmination of decades of intimate circle work with women. It has been my privilege to spend my life so far mentoring women as we reclaim the power of our own stories, our own bodies, our own beauty.

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