Simple Self-Care for Menopause

Simple Self-Care for Menopause

During the menopausal years it can feel like EVERYTHING in your life is changing. This time of rebirth can be really tumultuous. Self-care becomes very important. Your emotional and physical needs are changing, and your self-care needs change too. Have you prioritized self-care? You may be dealing with children leaving the nest, changes in your […]

Mother of Reinvention

Mother of Reinvention

“Life is a process of becoming, a combination of states we have to go through. Where people fail is that they wish to elect a state and remain in it. This is a kind of death.” ~ Anais Nin It’s a fresh new week and a brand new month. August has arrived fast on the […]

Dancing In the Dark

Dancing In the Dark

Dance, dance, otherwise we are lost. ~Pina Bausch Change is a terrifying word. Especially arbitrary change—change we feel we have no control over. It’s no wonder that the word menopause is not nearly as scary for most of us as the term The Change. “You’re going through The Change.” “She’s experiencing The Change.” It positively […]

Ordinary Celebrations and Tiny Revolutions

Ordinary Celebrations and Tiny Revolutions

In my mailbox this week was a beautiful note. Handmade, with watercolors on simple paper, the cursive words were an invitation to come and celebrate the full moon with dinner. “We have realized,” it read, “that our life needs more celebrations.” It went on to say that their plans were simple, that children were welcome. […]

Full Moon Wisdom

Full Moon Wisdom

How are you feeling? We are just coming out of the intense energies of yesterday’s Capricorn Full Moon… have you noticed, as we enter the Wisdom Years, that although our bodies no longer cycle so obviously with the moon, that we are still profoundly tuned to and aligned with the lunar cycles? If you are […]

Daily Wisdom: Sovereignty

Daily Wisdom: Sovereignty

SOVEREIGNTY To stand in my own power. To be the supreme ruler of my body and life. To set my own boundary markers. To own my story and my truth. To make no apologies for my experience and knowledge. To live my own wisdom. To decide whom and what are worthy of my time and […]

Hot Flashes: Dancing in the Fire

Hot Flashes: Dancing in the Fire

Sacred Fire I’ve been waking up in the night with my skin on fire. I try to explain this to my tender and supportive husband: “I feel like I’m bathing in sheet lightning. It’s electrical. It’s hot.” He says “You ARE hot!” But it feels like – I’m on fire. Don’t touch me. I wake […]

Daily Menopause Wisdom: Midlife Sexuality

Daily Menopause Wisdom: Midlife Sexuality

Let’s talk about midlife sexuality. Since I’ve been doing this work, I have had many young women approach me and say “thank you, you’ve made me less afraid of aging” or “thanks for what you do, I don’t dread menopause as much now.” It’s wonderful to hear this, of course, and on the surface these […]